Not fade away…

June 10, 2010 · 5 comments

It’s one of my earliest memories…sitting in a folding chair with a tiny Mickey Mouse guitar in my four-years-old hands at the extreme edge of the stage…I was about halfway back, to the point I now realize the crowd couldn’t see me…but, I could sure watch the focal point of their attention, the lead singer of the band…my Dad.

I’ve often wondered since if seeing my Dad in the spotlight that way — and observing the impact he had on people — is the main reason I have made my living either on the stage or behind a microphone my entire life?

I don’t think there’s any doubt…

Dad would have been 81 yesterday. Unfortunately, we lost him in August 2004 of congestive heart failure.

I’ve always realized I could become President of the United States or marry the Queen of England, return home, and as the motorcade passed, most people in my county would say, “Hey…look…it’s Dallas’ boy!” He was loved in our community more than I could describe.

You don’t have to be very old to realize that every day we live is one some person we loved did not get to see. Remind yourself of that…and not just on birthdays of the departed.

It means their memory will not fade away…and, probably more importantly, it means you and I will grasp the infinite value of a single day.

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  • http://whatifitdid.com Shelley Erwin

    The thoughts you share today have special meaning for me, as my Dad touched my life in so many wonderful ways — and still does — even though he is no longer on this earth.

    I also totally understand the sense of pride and love felt when others align you with someone you respect so deeply. Not only will I always be known as Dallas' daughter — but also as Scott's baby sister! It simply doesn't get better than that. :-)

  • Julieconceicao

    Thank you for this, Scott! So beautifully written. This is the time of year I miss Dad most…he left us in July 2008, a week after my birthday. It broke my heart cuz Dad was and will always be everything to me. He would have been 80 this year. I'd like to quote some of the things you'd written here on my fb status and tweet it if you don't mind. I'll give due credit to your name :) See you in Sunny Singapore real soon!

  • http://www.McKainViewpoint.com Scott McKain

    Thank you, Julie…you are very kind. I'd be honored for any quotes you would desire to make.

    And, I look forward to seeing you in Singapore very soon!

    Best regards,
    Scott

  • http://www.McKainViewpoint.com Scott McKain

    Awwwww….thanks to my favorite sister in the whole wide world!

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